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[personal profile] whatdidisay 2016-05-26 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
He stands up again, untangling the wires before pressing small pads to Duv's temples, brushing the hair back. "This'll take the readings that'll show up here," he says waving the small machine in his other hand, "and when you're done we'll go through the results together."

Beta Colony -- all about open discussion regarding sex, no problem.
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[personal profile] whatdidisay 2016-05-26 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)
David is... he's not like Ivan's usual clients, that's for sure. Most men come to him for help at getting more comfortable with having sex with men, women too -- although he's found that most women tend to opt for hermaphrodites or other women to get comfortable. Someone shy about sex in general, though? And requiring a build in intimacy before the other man would feel comfortable having sex? Ivan'd be better off handing this to someone else.

"Well you are attracted to men, so you can put that fear to rest," he says with a smile, "and the test indicates that there's an overall hesitancy towards sex, but that you're more open with the idea of it with someone you feel an emotional, non-sexual intimacy with first." Ivan sets the device back down on his desk, and fishes out a pamphlet of flimsies as well as calling up a schedule on his comm. "So we'll schedule a few meetings to help encourage that before moving onto anything explicitly sexual."

Another grin, and he hands a pamphlet over to the other man. "That's a list of various approved sex acts -- read it over, mark which ones interest you, and bring it back to me at our next appointment. If you'd like to try any of the masturbation ideas on your own, there's an LSP approved and run sex shop two floors up that'll help you with anything you might need."
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[personal profile] whatdidisay 2016-05-26 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
"The stop by the shop might not be, but the masturbation isn't optional. The idea is to get yourself comfortable with your own body in the hopes that will ease any embarrassment you might feel. And provide you with a template of what you like and don't like. Technology can only do so much, unless you're willing to try one of our more immersive tests." Ivan doesn't figure he is. David's got a doctorate, doesn't he? Ivan remembers seeing as much, and not the medical kind. He doesn't seem the type. "Think of it like homework. And there's plenty of free stuff to watch, too, if you need help getting into the mood."

As for his other question, well. "Once or twice a week should be fine. We can go longer once we're past establishing intimacy if you've got lingering questions or concerns."
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[personal profile] whatdidisay 2016-05-26 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
"No, this is all that I'm going to ask for, for now." With the implication being if David doesn't, Ivan will have to find a way to get the other man to start getting more comfortable and relaxed with the idea of sex at all. But his question about the sources is, Ivan thinks, a sign of him at least willing to try. Good, he hates coaxing people into this. Seducing is fine and easy, but this is work.

"Yeah," he says, going back to digging through the files on his desk before coming up with a list. "Feelie shows, what holovid channels, it's all right there."
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[personal profile] whatdidisay 2016-05-27 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
Ivan flashes him an encouraging grin before standing, holding his hand out for David to shake. "Just let Reception know, and we'll set up a time. I look forward to our next appointment."

He should refer him to someone else, Ivan thinks, very briefly. But he'd been trained in all of this just like anyone else, and David requested him. What's the worst that could happen?