"More than two times," Ivan confirms. "And that depends, what are you most comfortable with? I think we can avoid anything having to do with penetration for now -- we'll work at that together -- but maybe something with a bit of vibration. Something with a bit of stimulation to help." And maybe make it seem less like a chore. He can only hope that perspective goes away in time, but it doesn't seem completely likely.

Still, he offers the other man an encouraging grin. "I might have some things I can rent out to you, if you'd rather."